At Light OT, we start by seeing what makes each child unique, capable and full of potential. A strengths-based approach means we look beyond challenges to focus on the abilities, preferences and interests that already exist. It is a way of working that celebrates difference, builds confidence and supports children to grow in ways that feel authentic and meaningful to them.
What is a Strengths-Based Approach?
A strengths-based approach is grounded in respect. It means recognising and building on what a child already does well rather than focusing only on what is hard. It means starting with the question, “What does this child enjoy? What energises them? What are they proud of?” This approach values neurodiversity and individual variation, viewing differences not as deficits, but as natural expressions of being human.
In occupational therapy, a strengths-based lens helps guide goal setting, therapy activities and relationship building. For example, if a child loves animals, we might use animal-themed games to support motor planning or emotional regulation. If a child enjoys movement, we might use play-based physical activities to help build core strength or coordination. When children feel safe and seen, they are more likely to participate, explore and grow.
Why Strengths Matter
Focusing on strengths is not just a feel-good idea. It has real benefits for children, families and therapy outcomes.
- It builds confidence
When children experience success in areas they already enjoy, they start to believe in themselves. They become more willing to try new things and face challenges with resilience. - It supports motivation
Therapy feels more meaningful and engaging when it includes a child’s passions. If a child loves drawing, incorporating it into regulation routines or fine motor practice can increase participation and enjoyment. - It encourages autonomy
Children who understand and use their strengths are more likely to advocate for themselves and make choices that align with their values and preferences. - It strengthens relationships
When therapists, educators and families reflect a child’s strengths back to them, they help build trust and connection. This can reduce stress and increase a child’s willingness to communicate and engage. - It promotes long-term wellbeing
Research shows that strengths-based interventions are linked with higher self-esteem, better emotional regulation and increased life satisfaction in children and adolescents.
What Strengths Might Look Like
Strengths show up in many different ways and are not always academic or skill-based. For example:
- A child may be deeply empathetic and comforting to others
- They may have strong visual memory or a love of detail
- They may find calm in nature or excel in problem-solving
- They may use humour to connect with people
- They might have a strong sense of justice or fairness
- They may create elaborate stories or build complex Lego structures
- They might express creativity through music, dance or drawing
It is important to remember that strengths can be quiet or unconventional. Some children communicate their abilities through actions rather than words. Others may need time, space and support to uncover and explore what they enjoy.
How It Looks in Therapy
At Light OT, we integrate a strengths-based approach into every part of our practice. This includes how we plan sessions, how we engage with families, and how we set goals.
Here are some examples:
In therapy sessions
We build activities around the child’s interests. If a child is interested in trains, we might use a train game to support collaboration or motor planning. If they love animals, we might use animal yoga or storytelling to support regulation and engagement.
In routines and strategies
We work with families to identify where strengths can support daily life. For example, if a child enjoys structure and order, we might co-create a visual morning routine that taps into that strength. If they are highly observant, we can use that in mindfulness or activities that explore inner experiences.
In communication and connection
We respect and support all forms of communication. Whether a child uses speech, signs, gestures or assistive technology, we meet them where they are and affirm their preferred ways of expressing themselves.
In goal setting
Rather than focusing on what a child “should” do, we set goals that reflect what is meaningful to them. This might include building confidence in a preferred activity, increasing independence in a favourite routine, or finding new ways to connect with others in ways that feel natural and comfortable.
Strengths and Meaningful Connection
Connection is a basic human need. When we help children use their strengths to build meaningful connections, we open the door to relationships that feel safe and affirming. This might look like:
- Supporting a child to express their ideas in a classroom project that reflects their interests
- Helping a child use their strong sense of humour to bond with a peer
- Creating opportunities for shared experiences like drawing, building or movement games that support connection without pressure to “socialise” in a specific way
Connection doesn’t need to follow a script. It is about creating space for children to be themselves, to relate in their own time and their own way.
Why Language and Mindset Matter
A strengths-based approach is not just about the activities we use. It is a mindset. It is reflected in the way we talk about children, the expectations we set, and the way we interpret behaviour.
Instead of saying, “They struggle with group work,” we might say, “They feel most comfortable working independently and can focus well on tasks they enjoy.”
Instead of saying, “They lack social skills,” we say, “They connect meaningfully in their own way, especially when they feel safe and understood.”
This shift in language helps children feel valued. It reminds adults to look beyond surface behaviours and focus on what is really going on underneath.
How Families Can Use a Strengths-Based Lens at Home
Parents and carers can also use this approach in everyday life. Here are a few ideas:
- Notice what energises your child and offer more opportunities for that
- Celebrate effort and interest, not just achievement
- Reflect strengths back to your child using positive language
- Create routines or responsibilities that align with their preferences
- Share your child’s strengths with teachers and support teams so others can build on them too
You know your child best. Trust your observations and keep looking for the spark in everyday moments.
Putting Strengths Into Practice
At Light OT, we believe every child has strengths worth celebrating. We are here to help families and children build confidence, connection and skills through those strengths. A strengths-based approach is about recognising what is already working and growing from there. It is about moving away from fixing and toward affirming. When children feel seen for who they are and supported to use their natural abilities, real growth becomes possible.
If you are looking for therapy that values your child’s individuality and focuses on their strengths, we would love to work with you. Reach out to the Light OT team to learn more.
Last modified: 01/09/2025